Let's start with....
LOVE (Pag-ibig)- this is the most important factor obviously. You just can't be in a relationship without this. When we were still a kid we already know how and what love is right? We love our friends, our family and etc. but when we say to love someone specially/intimately is a different thing. For me this kind of love is hard to recognize and so to resist. For a relationship to lasts both should feel this, not just a simple love but something deeper, true and unconditional. You can't give that right away but eventually you will, and to you surprise your already hooked. Hahahha (coz I'm exactly right there super hooked). It's a great feeling to love and to be loved. Just make the most of it and don't regret cause love don't deserve that.
LOYALTY (Katapatan)- Yes, loyalty! For me loyalty is composed of 100% fidelity and 80% honesty hahahaha. Loyalty is different from honesty. Being loyal means assuring your partner that there is no one else but him/her and only him/her. While honesty.. hmmm can't figure out what honesty really is, according to wikipedia honesty means refers to a facet of and denotes positive, virtuous attributes such as moral character, intergrity, truthfulness, and straightforwardness along with the absence of lying, cheating, or theft. See? just honesty alone needs a lot of work. Cheating is a big no no in a relationship. Lying? Well in a relationship we need to do a little of that, it depends on the situation actually. You don't need to tell everything when you know that it's not proper (I'm pointing small things guys I just said NO CHEATING) to tell it. Example in comes to food your dying to eat something and you know that your partner will not allow you to eat that, munch that, drink that blah blah. You don't need to say "hey love i just ate 2 pounds of this..." you know both of you will end up fighting (hahaha it reminds me of something) I'm not saying that couples should stay away from fussing. Let things happen without violating the rules. Healthy fighting is needed in relationship in order for both couples to mature and be more responsible. Be loyal to your partner. Oh anyways strictly no flirting, for me its infidelity guys. When loyalty is present, trust will be gained. (I know your reading *wink* my loyalty is with you *wink*).
LUST (don't know the tagalog term hahaha)- the most unique and exciting factor. Hahaha Am i right people? Hello? When your in love its a SOP your in lust. C'mon no denying please (harhar). Some might think lust is an immoral act (it's included in the list of the deadliest sin) it will be so called "immoral" when your doing it the wrong way. Lust should be given to your partner only, no exceptions. In food in order for it to be more delicious you need certain spices. Well, when it comes to relationship you need lust. Love and Lust should go together. Love alone? Spell B-O-R-I-N-G. Hahaha. Seriously, when lust is with love, trust and loyalty then it will be called intimacy. It adds excitement to a relationship. And take note when you do it be sure your certain about your love and feeling for that special person so that there will be no pointing of fingers and no regrets will come after.
to my readers this is only my opinion. This is only according to my real life experiences, my point of views. I hope you've learned something from this, this is my longest post so far so have pity please learn something (hahahaha). Thanks for patronizing my page. Be upadated guys, ok? Mwah!
To my BF/Partner I love you (PDA ba? hahaha wala akong paki lols) Thanks to you! Mwah..
To my BF/Partner I love you (PDA ba? hahaha wala akong paki lols) Thanks to you! Mwah..
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